Question : How do you recover from a broken heart? After the love of your life crushes your heart into pieces? After everything you've been hoping and dreaming of came crushing down? Do you cry your eyes out? Get drunk? Find a rebound guy? Do something stupid and ridiculous? Why is it call a broken heart when it feels like every part of you is broken and crushed into pieces?
How would you face him again? Can you still remain as friends with him? How if he already found someone else? Before you could even get over him? You wonder how he could move on so fast after being together for so long... it's like you don't even mean anything to him? You keep asking yourself what did you do wrong... why did he choose her instead of you... what does she got that you don't... questions keep rushing inside your mind with no answers which is so torturing for yourself...
You cry yourself to sleep the first few weeks in the beginning... you tell your friends you are okay when the truth is you are dying inside... you put on a smile when you are out so that no one would know how deeply crushed you are... you fall asleep hoping you won't wake up... or hoping when you wake up and it is all a bad dream... you feel like the world just fall apart for you... you feel so hopeless and restless... so sad, depressed and you ask yourself what is the meaning of life without him by your side now... you have built your entire life around him and suddenly it is all gone to waste... all the years together, all the laughter and everything you shared together... WHY, you keep asking yourself...
A friend once told me if he is yours, no matter what he'll come back for you... and it is his lost that he doesn't appreciate you... he said you got to love yourself and show him that it is his mistake to let you go... and never ever give up on love...
Yes, at first you will be afraid to trust another person... you will be afraid to fall in love again... you are afraid to give your heart to another and put your whole self out there cause you are afraid to get hurt again... you ask yourself will you ever end up alone or if there is really someone out there for you... you blame Cupid and Fate for bringing the two of you together... and you wish the next time you could forward into time and see how the ending is and see whether it is all worthwhile to go on when someone else come along cause you don't want to get hurt again...
Well... you just have to be strong, lift yourself up and move on... forget about him cause you can't change the past... you could only learn from the experiences... I know it's hard and it's easier said than done... but in time everything will work out as it is destined to be... God and time will heal your broken heart and you will find the right person in the right place, the right time and for the right reasons... Love is supposed to be easy and it shouldn't be hard... if you ever have to second guess your position in someone's life then it is a wrong relationship to be in... someone who truly loves you will love you no matter what and he would be proud to show you off to the whole world...
I know it's not easy to forget the love you once had... and no matter how long you have already broken up, a small part of you will always hurt when you see them with someone else or even heard news about them... a part of you will always love the person...
I know how it feels like having your heart ripped into pieces, believe me... that is why I'm taking one day at a time to heal my broken heart... keep breathing and keep taking deep breathes when you feel like your heart is gonna stop by all the hurt inside... hurt till it hurts no more... Take all the time you need to heal emotionally... Moving on doesn't take a day, it takes lots of little steps to be able to break free of your broken self... The pain of having a broken heart is not so much as to kill you, yet not so little as to let you live... Yes, love hurts but what is life without love...
You cry yourself to sleep the first few weeks in the beginning... you tell your friends you are okay when the truth is you are dying inside... you put on a smile when you are out so that no one would know how deeply crushed you are... you fall asleep hoping you won't wake up... or hoping when you wake up and it is all a bad dream... you feel like the world just fall apart for you... you feel so hopeless and restless... so sad, depressed and you ask yourself what is the meaning of life without him by your side now... you have built your entire life around him and suddenly it is all gone to waste... all the years together, all the laughter and everything you shared together... WHY, you keep asking yourself...
A friend once told me if he is yours, no matter what he'll come back for you... and it is his lost that he doesn't appreciate you... he said you got to love yourself and show him that it is his mistake to let you go... and never ever give up on love...
Yes, at first you will be afraid to trust another person... you will be afraid to fall in love again... you are afraid to give your heart to another and put your whole self out there cause you are afraid to get hurt again... you ask yourself will you ever end up alone or if there is really someone out there for you... you blame Cupid and Fate for bringing the two of you together... and you wish the next time you could forward into time and see how the ending is and see whether it is all worthwhile to go on when someone else come along cause you don't want to get hurt again...
Well... you just have to be strong, lift yourself up and move on... forget about him cause you can't change the past... you could only learn from the experiences... I know it's hard and it's easier said than done... but in time everything will work out as it is destined to be... God and time will heal your broken heart and you will find the right person in the right place, the right time and for the right reasons... Love is supposed to be easy and it shouldn't be hard... if you ever have to second guess your position in someone's life then it is a wrong relationship to be in... someone who truly loves you will love you no matter what and he would be proud to show you off to the whole world...
I know it's not easy to forget the love you once had... and no matter how long you have already broken up, a small part of you will always hurt when you see them with someone else or even heard news about them... a part of you will always love the person...
I know how it feels like having your heart ripped into pieces, believe me... that is why I'm taking one day at a time to heal my broken heart... keep breathing and keep taking deep breathes when you feel like your heart is gonna stop by all the hurt inside... hurt till it hurts no more... Take all the time you need to heal emotionally... Moving on doesn't take a day, it takes lots of little steps to be able to break free of your broken self... The pain of having a broken heart is not so much as to kill you, yet not so little as to let you live... Yes, love hurts but what is life without love...
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