Why do men cheat

Why do men cheat? Why are men unfaithful? Can infidelity be prevented? Can a wife single-handedly ensure that her husband won't stray? Do a man's friends have anything to do with his willingness to cheat?

Some guys say it's because they are not satisfied with their partner... always nagging them and stuffs like that... some guys would say it's just a fling or pleasure, nothing serious or maybe the other girl are much more prettier and more attractive... but is it really true? The question of why men cheat and whether it is because of sexual dissatisfaction, emotional dissatisfaction, or something else has remained largely unexamined... but still, in my opinion whatever the reason is, it does not give the man the right to cheat...

Cheating always starts from nothing... a simple friendship can turn into something and that something might be something terrible... This is how it always works: first, you meet the girl... then you start to slowly talk to her and start a conversation... then phone calls and sms keep becoming more frequent... then you start to go out together in a group... then it become an outing just the 2 of you... then the next thing you know you are holding her hand, kissing her and making out... (it is perfectly okay and a green light for you to go ahead but what if you are seeing somebody else or married? This is where cheating comes in to the relationship...).By then your wife or girlfriend, who knows nothing about this secret relationship or affair starts suspecting something is wrong (girls always have the best instinct when something is amiss)... of course she would ask you about it and then sure enough 100% you would deny about it... who would admit they are cheating in the first place? Unless evidence are being proven till there is nothing more to say and by then it will be the end of the relationship... of course in some relationships, the girl (girls are always soft hearted and more forgiving) would stupidly forgive and accept the man back hoping he would change for the good... but would he?

I personally really don't understand why do man have to cheat... You can see on the Sunday Star newspaper in the Thelma section woman keep writing about how their husband of so many years or boyfriends cheats on them and seeking for advices... Don't the man think of their love ones (wife, girlfriends or even their kids) when they cheat or out flirting with another woman? When he holds her hand or even kisses her, doesn't the image of their girlfriend/wife flashes before them? How can these men even have the thought of even cheating behind their back? Can't these men control their own feelings and urges? What if it is their partners who are cheating behind their back? How would these men feel then?

However, some guys would feel guilty after cheating on their partners, but what is the point then? They should have thought about it first before committing to this sinful act... Relationships and families are ruin because of it... A good relationship would break up, families get divorce and children would suffer the most...

Friend's influence are another reason why men would cheat... Encouragements and supports being given by their friends energizes a man's spirit to go ahead with their cheating acts... Going to prostitute places, seeking China Dolls and so on... These friends would never know the depth of a relationship that are being shared by you and your partner but for some guys in order to show to their friends that they are the MAN or to safe their face, they would go ahead with it... And I tell you these friends are stupid asshole friends and must be avoided at all cost...BETRAYAL is the word... how could you ever trust the man again? Can you ever trust them back even if they apologize to you and promise this will not happen again? You can forgive but can you ever forget? All the emotional torture that you have to go through... you can't eat and can't sleep and everything seems to be wrong for you when you knew your man is out there cheating with another woman... do these men even know or understand what you have to go through knowing someone you really love and care about had betrayed your love and trust?

What do crosses the man's mind when they do decide to cheat? Is it just for the sake of pleasure? Just for the sake of knowing that they still are capable of attracting the opposite sex? Just to know that they still have the skill to lure other woman? I really don't know and I object to whatever nonsense excuse that would be given by them...

Why can't men commit to just one woman? Where is the meaning of true love? What is the meaning of 'LOVE' then? How about fairy tales that says happily ever after? You don't see fairy tales prince charming cheating on the princesses... Where has all the loyalty and truthfulness in this world gone to? What happened to all the promises that were made when they are together? What about all the passions and happiness that used to share between them? Have it all been forgotten?

Relationships are supposed to be based on the truth and honesty... Why do you have to be attached to somebody if you always have the intentions of cheating behind them? Why don't you be single and alone and then go and flirt with as many girls as you want? Why makes this particular girl miserable with you? If you don't love her anymore then tell her... why drag her around like she's nothing... why don't you release her so that she can find someone else better, who deserves her love and who wants to spend the rest of his life with her and loving her...

The right thing to do (and the gentleman's way) is to always settle the present relationship first before you start another new relationship... Cheating can shatter trust and breed insecurity and resentment from which some relationships never recover... 

So girls, before you commit yourself to someone, open your eyes wide and see... cause once a cheater, always a cheater... if he could cheat behind his wife or his girlfriend's back to be with you, someday and most probably he will cheat behind your back with someone else...