We all heard and know about the recent tragedy news of Chris Brown beating up Rihanna which caused severe swelling and several bruises on Rihanna's face. Pictures of her injury are circulating on the web showing her eyes closed, two contusions on each side of her forehead, bruises over each of her eyes, swollen lips and lacerations on her face.
There are a lot of opinions on this issue, some supporting Chris Brown and some supporting Rihanna. And according to the latest updates, Chris Brown is fearing for his security and his life as he is a marked man. He faces criminal charges and possible jail time, but he’s going to have to deal with Rihanna’s legion of fans and her close-knit friends in the industry. And now he is apologizing for his actions? Come on man, you should have thought about your actions before you lay your hands on her... don't you think it's a little bit too late for apology now that damage have been done? He should have known better since he himself have experienced domestic violence in his family when seeing his mother allegedly being beaten by his stepfather.... In an interview, he talked about his hatred for his stepfather and said, "I used to always feel the hate for anybody that disrespected a lady. Or called a lady the B-word ... or just disrespected her." So why is he repeating history himself??? What about the quote he said before???
We can learn or relate a thing or two about the episode I watched on Desperate Housewives the other day, and there is a part where Susan's son was bullied by Gabrielle's bigger size daughter. And Susan wanted Mike and her boyfriend to teach her son to fight in order to defend himself. At first both guys were willing to teach her son but when they both found out that the reason Susan asked them to teach his son is because to fight against Gabrielle's daughter which is a girl, they said NO. Cause they said they would never hit a woman and they would never teach the younger generations to hit a woman either.
I don't understand how some women can tolerate being abused like this... Some even assume it's their fate being in this situation and just sit back and take everything in. Some even lie and cover up for their husband/boyfriend to their friends and relatives when they see bruises on them... Okay... you may say that you love this person very much but I am pretty sure he doesn't feel the same way... A person who loves you will never cause you any pain physically or emotionally.
Take a look at Rihanna, for example, she is a pretty girl and can have any man she wants, but yet she's willing to accept this kind of behaviour from a boyfriend and now there are rumours that she's back with Chris Brown. Come on, what's wrong with women? Why would you sit back and accept abuse from someone, that’s something I’ll never understand. Would the guy repeat his actions again if he apologises? How many times would you need to suffer for you to wake up to reality?
There are a lot of support groups out there trying to help out these poor women and in most countries there are laws protecting these women... We may also heard over the radio on the advertisement/awareness program about violence against women... Therefore, women should not be afraid to stand up for themselves and fight for their rights!!! In an argument no matter who is right and who is wrong, no one deserves to be abused... words should be use instead of violence...
Last but not least, in my opinion, a man should never hit a woman. NEVER!!!
You can easily look up and refer to this website for more information about violence against women: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violence_against_women
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